The Unspoken Truths About Blame in Relationships
Say Heffa Say What?
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One of my favorite saying is this: Show me a beautiful woman, and I’ll show you a man who’s tired of f*cking her.
That statement alludes to myriad things and quite possibly unlocks the keys to the male/female universe, similar to how Kurt Cobain’s lyrics were the key to everlasting life, which is why James Earl Ray was re-hired to force him to commit suicide in 1994.
It alludes to a woman’s ability to maintain herself, usually to keep her man happy, which means that the woman is sacrificing her time and energy remaining who the man wants her to be. And as most will tell you, women are nurturers and sacrificers for the greater good of a relationship—or at least definitely moreso than men. On the other half of comma, it alludes to man’s roaming nature and inability to recognize and hold on to a good thing while he has it.
Face it, she won’t be beautiful for long. If anything, he’s tired of smurfing her way to soon. He should at least wait to be tired of smurfing her when she looks like the veggie section of the grocery store.
Men are impatient and prone to cheating. Men are unable to recognize a good thing while we have it. We don’t recognize the hard-work and sacrifice of women. Men basically suck.
And for this reason men are usually at fault when relationships go bad. If he just tried harder to do what he said he’d do or gave her a little more time and treated her like the queen that she is, she wouldn’t be the bitter bitch beauty queen that she is today.
It’s thinking like this that is just downright screwing up relationships left and right with the speed of a 2-second man. As a man growing up with three sisters, I’ve heard how much men suck and how all of their problems are rooted in some man’s inability to “just damn act right.” That’s all it takes. Just act right and all will be well.
Fiddlesticks and bullocks. Fact is that men suck. I know. I am man. Grr.
But I have to wonder why women never really take any credit for tanking the very relationships that they claim would be just fine if the man did what?
Class???
Act right.
If you let the magazines tell it, all women walk into relationships baggage-free and ready to tackle the world anew and be every woman like Chaka Khan. Truth is, many women are more like Whitney. So how come when (if) things go South it’s always the man driving the car? I actually want to know why women don’t claim ownership of any bad relationship they’ve ever been apart of.
Admittedly, men aren’t perfect and a lot of us have a lot to learn. It’s true. But how is it that women are all perfect until a man comes into the picture and kicks dirt in your sandbox. Let’s take it one step further. I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again. Women are crazy. Some men just tend to expose your craziness more than others-but the crazy is there.
Yet, somehow, you only keyed his car because he didn’t act right. How in the hell does him not doing what he said he’d do justify taking out a windshield?
I’ve had a chick tell me she couldn’t get into Heaven without me by her side.
That is insane. So how come I think there’s a chick out there who would think that was sweet and that I should appreciate having that woman by my side?
Because a chick DID tell me that.
Why come she doesn’t realize that’s a reason to run?
And how come when she tells her friends that we broke up, it’s my fault that relationship tanked?
I believe it was the great philosopher Jadakiss who said it best…
…why?